MIND MAKEOVERS
What are we going to do with ourselves when we can no longer inhabit the earth? Or, more likely, what will those closest to us do with our physical remains? In what manner will the essence of our lives be recognized and commemorated? How can we be assured that the presence we embodied will live on in the minds of others?
What are we going to do with ourselves when we can no longer inhabit the earth? Or, more likely, what will those closest to us do with our physical remains? In what manner will the essence of our lives be recognized and commemorated? How can we be assured that the presence we embodied will live on in the minds of others?
These are questions that only the most undaunted, well-organized and well-adjusted members of our society have been inclined to ask themselves. What about everyone else? The inevitable reality of separation and loss… of life endings… of permanent departures… is excruciatingly intimidating and emotionally draining for escapists who prefer to “bury their heads in the sand.” Denial and dismissal of thoughts about that last incomprehensible yet natural phase of life mask unrelenting truths, thereby perpetuating a state of rampant lack of preparedness.
Our attitudes toward death affect us throughout life. Quality of existence can be heightened through an appreciation of life’s limitation. We have choices. We can live in fear of mortality and cowardly assume a posture of avoidance, or we can ease the potential for strain on ourselves as well as our families by addressing measures of preparedness now. We can either disavow the certainty of death or embrace it as a natural consequence of living. We can control certain elements of our endings. We can explore the possibilities. We can dictate our preferences and initiate plans for closing scenarios. We can eliminate many of the decision-making chores that would burden our distraught loved ones during their time of sorrow. We have the power to determine conduct and personalize details relative to the occasion of terminal transition. We can reconcile ourselves to this irrefutable reality by adopting an attitude of acceptance and even enjoyment of the planning process.
With revitalized perspectives we can find our way to a new comfort zone. We can travel along modern routes paved by emerging trends and opportunities. If we open our eyes to the possibilities, we can witness expanded horizons and paint our own exquisite sunsets.
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